Building Collaborative Co-Parenting Relationships

I’m thrilled to share my recent guest appearance on the Should I Stay or Should I Go podcast with the wonderful Whitney Sloan. If you haven’t tuned into her show yet, you’re in for a treat. You know when you meet someone and you just know they are your kind of person? Whitney and I connected instantly over our shared mission: to support parents transitioning to two-home families in the healthiest and most compassionate ways possible. Whitney’s family’s journey resonates closely with many of the families I work with, and together, we explore the emotional and practical aspects of separation that often feel overwhelming.

From the moment we started chatting, it was clear we had many perspectives in common. We both believe that unhealthy relationships can end in beautifully healthy ways, with the right key supports in place. Whitney’s open sharing of her own experiences with divorce and co-parenting adds a layer of authenticity that many will relate to.

Whitney recommends that parents should plan for separation with the same level of dedication applied to planning a wedding and I agree. We talk about how essential it is to approach separation with a clear strategy, just as you would for any major life event. From the first conversations with a collaboratively trained co-parenting coach and lawyer to the crucial role of financial planning, we outline how to set yourself up for a smoother transition.

Whitney brings up a common struggle: the delicate dance of managing a co-parenting relationship. How do you maintain a sense of normalcy for the kids? How do you protect your peace and your children’s stability when communication is difficult? In our discussion, I share practical strategies for navigating these tricky times, and we discuss the importance of setting and holding boundaries and seeking the right professional support early on.

We explore why I see far more value in facilitated rather than mediated discussions for the long-term success of two home families. Beyond simply stopping conflict and signing a contract, it’s about creating a space where important healing conversations can happen that make reaching agreements and moving forward so much easier. Whitney’s reflections on her own experiences with mediation highlight why this distinction can make such a significant impact on the co-parenting dynamic.

Perhaps the most inspiring part of our discussion is our shared vision for a new normal around two-home families. Whitney and I both believe that separation doesn’t have to mean broken families. It can be a transition to a new, equally fulfilling chapter. We discuss how to maintain a sense of unity and love for your children, even as you navigate the practicalities of living in two homes. Whitney even shares the details of their two-home family shared vacation!

I’m so excited for you to listen to this episode. Whitney’s approach is refreshing and deeply aligned with the ethos of Co-Parenting Companion. I can’t wait to hear your thoughts!